The words of our Governor General Quentin Bryce, often ring in my head 'You can have it all, but not all at the same time.' Typically the focus of most feminist literature is on the juggle, the guilt and the struggle between motherhood and work. However, as I am a devotee of positive psychology, my interest lies in the connection between motherhood, work and being happy and satisfied with life. I have a fascination with talks, books and articles on motherhood, leadership and